Comments for A Journey In Black and Indian Love

Comment on About by Dineo

Dineo — Mon, 06 May 2013 11:11:21 +0000

aw Thank you glenn i think i will go with the flow, i also dont worry anymore about what people say about our relationship anymore just his family that i am worried about from my side of family am sure they will accept any man i want to marry as long as he makes me happy. for how long are you married Glenn if i may ask? and which race are you married to?

Comment on About by glenn

glenn — Fri, 03 May 2013 20:57:49 +0000

Hello,
You just have to do it and let the chips fall where they may. they have to accept you some time. Your boyfriend needs to tell them about you. I am of Indian decent and know the culture very well. A lot of Indian men live under their parent’s thumbs (not saying that your boyfriend is this way). He has to live with you for the rest of your lives and not his parents. Although, in some cases they might have to . I am in a mixed marriage and stopped thinking about what people or family think a long time ago. He needs to be firm but polite about it, as this is they only way Indians understand it. Softness if often taken as weakness in the East.

I wish you and him the best.

Comment on About by Dineo

Dineo — Thu, 02 May 2013 13:52:13 +0000

Hi, I am a 24 black south African woman been dating my hindi bf (27) for almost 2years we are so inlove and we have been talking about marriage and kids a lot lately but it scares me a lot that his family will not accept me his sister knows about our relationship and some of his friends that he has introduced me to he is scared to let his parents know about us, and now It will be his sister ‘s wedding of which his sister has invited me to come to but I am scared to go but he said this will be our chance to let them (parents) know about us and for them to meet me. Please help I have read about this awful stories that I have read about “ that there was a black girl that was killed by her in laws as they didn’t want their son to marry that black woman” I am excited but scared at the same time should I go or not ?

Comment on About by Chanda

Chanda — Sat, 20 Apr 2013 22:55:45 +0000

Just happen to come across this site, Love it!!! i have been involved with myEast Indian man for 8years (some good, some bad), and he is my heart. I have learned to deal with his family not approving of his desires to be with anyone like me (a Black woman). Despite that factor, I wouldn’t want to be with anyone else.

Comment on About by leilakhan88

leilakhan88 — Tue, 16 Apr 2013 20:26:46 +0000

i was so pleased to find this blog, I am facing a similar situation as so many above, im an Indian and i have been in a relationship with a Nigerian man the last three years. We both want our relationship to be more than what it is now and I’m just contemplating on ways to break this news to my family. I know it will be hard but I am ready to fight for him since he is a great man. I think this love too, as all others deserves a fair chance. keep on, blindian, your blog has given so many of us hope. xx

Comment on About by Aisha Matsi

Aisha Matsi — Sat, 06 Apr 2013 11:20:15 +0000

I love this blog becoz since 4rm a young age iv been attracted 2 indian males,but becoz of da stigma that travelling inda community,about indians making children wth black women n then running back home 2 marry their own indian women,has been a nightmare 2me till 2day,thou da attraction gets stronger as I grow now I’m 21

Comment on Blindian’s Old School Playlist by Denise Rogers

Denise Rogers — Wed, 03 Apr 2013 21:30:39 +0000

April 3rd is my daughters birthday and she is 36 years old. She did every dance iin the video especially with her friends in the back yard. So many wonderful memories come to mind as I watch you dance. I am posting a link on her facebook page. You are awesome. And by the way my daughter is also Blindian. Great job. Denise Rogers

Comment on About by Alisa

Alisa — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 16:52:03 +0000

Hi Deb the answer is yes and no. LOL> I have the best of intentions to post some of the blogs I’ve written but life has been so hectic lately that it’s hard to stay connected sometimes. There’s something coming soon. I promise!

Comment on About by R..

R.. — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 15:56:23 +0000

I would enjoy talking with others who are in the same situation and hopefully we can have a support group.

Comment on About by R..

R.. — Mon, 01 Apr 2013 15:53:37 +0000

Hi,
I came across this website and enjoyed reading the posts. I am an AA woman who is married to an Indian guy. His parents live in India and was not thrilled when they found out we were getting married. He is the type who does not care what others think and we are very happy together..:)